Sunday, January 4, 2009

Time Out

Proverbs 28:15 and 17 says:

"The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother.... Correct your son, and he will give you comfort; he will also delight your soul."

Coming across these verses this past week means so much more now to us as parents having to incorporate discipline into our daily routine. Though usually only lasting less than a minute, time outs are unpleasant for all of us. But they have proven to be very effective for the outbursts of anger and temper tantrums that occasionally arise, and Aaron never challenges us by attempting to get up or run away. I can barely stand it and he hangs his head and cries in his "spot" until I go get him. So pitiful - the moment never seems to come fast enough where we can hug, cuddle, and move on from the incident. But we know that these time out moments are so very necessary as we see the nasty sin nature within begin to rear its ugly head...

It has also given us a new perspective in our relationship with the Lord and His own discipline for us. As uncomfortable and painful as it might be to receive God's discipline, we can be assured that "for those whom the Lord loves, He disciplines" (Hebrews 12:6a).

We know also that the discipline ultimately leads to more happy moments and getting along together, of which I will focus on for a picture for this post... =)

So... Happy disciplining to my fellow parenting friends.... =) We know the outcome is worth it and the fruit yielded by it will be sweet.

5 comments:

Bethany said...

I am glad that Aaron is able to stay in the time-out spot, Eli has proven to be extremely strong-willed when it comes to this and absolutely refuses to stay there. I have tried everything :) I actually found that with him, placing "things" (ie - toys) in time-out is MUCH more effective. So there's another tip, in case you come to a day where putting him in time out doesn't work. Ha Ha! Our little bag of tricks right?

Kristie said...

Good work Mr. and Mrs. Pastor! ;-)

Anonymous said...

Nice job guys! I know it's tuff but we are yielding amazing little people in the process! Az amazing gift...though remembering that is so tuff at times! I'm so proud! I know Aaron is going to be an amazing man some day!(timeouts have always worked extreamly well for Dayn too!)

Sara said...

Thank you for this...I would like to say that it gets easier as they get older, but it doesn't. Right now we are dealing with this sybling battle of tattling on each other, and if one is in time out the other one seems to enjoy peeking around the corner and giggling, which then leads itself to an issue for them...the joys of parenthood

Adrienne Gibson said...

Oh the world of time outs...it makes me laugh after sharing with you Ryland's fat lip after his first battle with time out.